Jana Zhang

Please avoid this nanny! Statement regarding the nanny’s serious dereliction of duty while caring for the baby Over the past few days while the nanny was caring for the baby in my home, there were multiple instances of serious dereliction of duty, dishonesty, and disrespect for the parents’ childcare methods. I believe she is clearly no longer suitable to continue caring for an infant. The details are as follows: First, falsifying the amount of milk fed. One day before I went out, I clearly told the nanny to feed the baby 120 ml of milk, and the formula machine at home had already been set to 120 ml. She only needed to press once and it would dispense 120 ml of milk directly. But because she wanted to save effort and found feeding troublesome, she poured out half of the already prepared milk and actually fed the baby only about 60 ml, yet lied to me and said she had fed 120 ml. I have surveillance video to prove this process. Second, seriously improper nighttime care. Today the baby was obviously listless. After checking the surveillance footage, I found that after the baby woke up around 4 or 5 a.m., the nanny did not seriously soothe the baby back to sleep, but instead held the baby while using her phone and even recorded videos of the baby. During the recording, the phone flash was triggered, and the strong light shone directly into the baby’s eyes. For someone caring for an infant, this behavior is very unprofessional, and it makes me very worried about the baby’s eyes and physical condition. Third, not respecting the parents’ childcare approach and changing the baby’s sleep habits on her own. Our baby was originally able to fall asleep independently. As long as we followed the fixed routine—turning on white noise and letting the baby hold a small dog comfort object—the baby could usually fall asleep on their own. But the nanny sometimes forgot or did not follow this routine, causing the baby to wake up very soon. She also said she was trying to help the baby get rid of these “bad habits.” First of all, I do not think white noise and a comfort object are bad habits; secondly, even if she thought adjustments were needed, she should have first informed us and obtained the parents’ consent, rather than changing the sleep method the baby had already adapted to on her own. In many matters, she did not respect my thoughts and requirements. Fourth, overall care was not careful enough. In addition to the specific incidents above, the nanny was generally not careful enough while caring for the baby and did not pay enough attention to the baby’s condition, schedule, and needs. The baby is still very young and needs patient, careful, and responsible care, but her performance made me unable to feel at ease leaving my child with her. Fifth, integrity and fee issues. The nanny did not work the agreed number of days, but currently is unwilling to refund the corresponding fees. Combined with her concealment and deception regarding the feeding issue, I believe this is not only work negligence, but also involves basic integrity. In summary, the nanny’s behavior has seriously affected the baby’s safety, health, and schedule, and has also destroyed our trust in her. I cannot accept her continuing to care for the baby, and I request that the refund of the remaining fees and related issues be handled as soon as possible.

Auntie Zhang cared for our baby from the time the baby was one month old until four months old. During this time, she gave our family tremendous help and support, and has become someone we trust very much. Auntie was meticulous and patient in caring for the baby. She would carefully observe the baby’s condition, help establish good routines, and paid great attention to the baby’s hygiene and care. From bathing and infant massage to every time she picked the baby up and put the baby down, she was very gentle. The baby felt very secure under her care and also formed a very good attachment with her. In addition to her professional childcare experience, Auntie’s greatest qualities are her love and sense of responsibility. Sometimes when the baby was uncomfortable or fussy at night, she was always the first to stay with and comfort the baby, never complaining, which truly made us feel trust and support. Being with Auntie, we felt very at ease. She has a gentle personality, does not nitpick, and during the time she came to our home, she not only cared for the baby but also brought us a lot of stability and peace of mind. We are very grateful for her dedication over these past few months. If you are looking for a reliable maternity nanny who truly loves children and to whom you can completely entrust your baby with confidence, I sincerely recommend her. Niko’s mom 10/28/2025