Thank goodness for India! Ahead of our baby's birth, I was pretty sure I wanted a doula - sure enough, at least, to spring for it. Then afterwards, we both thought "thank goodness for India." Here are just a few reasons why.
1 - For the long haul
Our kiddo happened to time his arrival to fit with a given shift of hospital staff, so we didn't have to experience a shift change mid-labor. But even if we had, it was incredibly reassuring to know that India would be by our side - quite literally holding our hands - for the long haul.
2 - Translation and communication
The hospital team was outstanding, and both my husband and I had "studied up" extensively on labor and delivery. But still, there were many, many instances where the 2 of us were too adrenalined to understand or communicate well. India was the cool, calm translator that made everthing smoother for everyone.
3 - Expert support for the supporter
I knew that the hospital team would take great care of me physically, and that my husband would do his best to support me emotionally. But I also knew that this would be a challenging day for him as a first-time dad. I worried he'd be confused, isolated, or terrified, and I was concerned that if he felt anxious, I'd have trouble keeping my own "head in the game."
India served as my husband's #1 ally in the labor room. She was ready with breathing, positioning, and massage techniques to help him help me through the contractions. Not only did he no longer feel helpless. Instead, India showed him how to be an essential part of bringing our baby into the world.
Without India, I'm certain labor would have taken longer, and been a whole lot harder for everyone. But within ~12 hours, a happy, healthy kiddo arrived without any complications or interventions. Thanks goodness for India!