I am a first time mom, and I was paired with Nahid about 5 weeks before baby Phoenix's arrival. Our meetings were weekly, in our home, and very pleasant. She discussed birth and labor with us, and shared valuable exercises and breathing techniques to prepare for labor. Ultimately, we had a last-minute birth change because 5 days before Phoenix came I decided to do a home water birth instead of the hospital. She helped me locate a midwife for that, which ultimately made my birth experience amazing, and sent the precedent for my future planned births. Aside from her prompt and irreplaceable help pre-labor, her assistance during labor was AMAZING. She arrrived with oils, food, massage tools, and was by my side supporting me almost exclusively for 12 hours. She followed me from toilet to birth pool, guiding me in my breathing, supporting me while walking, waving a peppermint washcloth when i felt like puking and holding a bowl while I did. I had many preparations for myself, but when in labor, I forgot all about my own preparations and relied on everything she brought. It was like she had anticipated everything that was going to happen and had some tool, liquid, breathing technique, or advice for the occassion. Right when I was entering the pushing phase, she held up an incredibly delicious high-protein drink to my mouth, which I swear woke me up and helped me move into the next phase. I can still taste that delicious drink. Not only was her help during labor irreplaceable, but as the midwives were assisting me after the birth she made a delicious dinner for everyone and helped cleanup our tiny, chaotic apartment! I felt her fixated on my every move during my labor, but never felt like my space was invaded, or judged, or bossed around. She always asked permission, made suggestions, and explained what she was doing. I feel so blessed to have her present at my first birth, and hope she is available for the future!