实名举报这个月嫂 我没有使用过 只是在xhs平台咨询已经初见端倪。聊天记录因为拉黑了没有了，我全文复述一下。 我问他要简历，发来一段话没有最重要的年龄也没有经验信息（做了几年带了多少个宝宝）。 于是我问“可以问一下您的年龄和经验么” 于是这位台湾Audrey月嫂发来一大段话“如果你是要找几十年的老月嫂的话，我可能不合适哦” ？现在找月嫂问个yoe都不行了吗 于是我回”我没有说要找几十年的啊”“不算透露就算了” 于是这位台湾阿姨开始骂人了 “你好没教养啊” 而且还发了小红书帖子，断章取义的略过了我们的对话来吐槽我。 我实名吐槽，不想接工作可以说不接。这样一点就着去骂人的性格可以做月嫂？能带好宝宝？ 我很怀疑 发出来给大家提前避雷。

We are pleased to write this letter of recommendation for Gold (we called her Xie Ayi), who worked with our family as a confinement nanny for one month following the birth of our baby. As first-time parents, we truly could not have asked for a more supportive, capable, and compassionate caregiver during such a vulnerable and important time. From the very beginning, she brought an incredible level of care into our home. Her Chinese cooking was outstanding — each meal typically included three thoughtfully prepared dishes along with a soup, all of which were both nourishing and delicious. She maintained exceptional cleanliness in the kitchen, especially when handling raw ingredients, and consistently left the space spotless and well-sanitized after every meal. Beyond her help with meals, she was instrumental in guiding us through the basics of newborn care. She patiently taught us techniques for diaper changes, bathing, and feeding, which greatly increased our confidence as new parents. She was also extremely attentive to our baby’s feeding and diaper schedules. Although we tracked everything through an app, she had the details memorized and was always one step ahead. She was especially supportive during my breastfeeding journey. She helped stimulate my initial milk supply through massage and, later on, spent extra time assisting me through clogged ducts with additional care and attention. Her support during this time made a meaningful difference in both my comfort and recovery. Her overnight support was truly invaluable. She was always the first to respond when our baby woke — quickly comforting, changing, and feeding her so she could settle back to sleep. She consistently encouraged us to rest and reminded us that recovery after childbirth is essential, showing genuine concern for both the baby’s well-being and the mother’s healing. Above all, Gold is an incredibly patient, calm, and loving person who genuinely enjoys caring for babies. It was clear from the start that she truly cared for our child, and that sense of trust and peace meant everything to us. We are deeply grateful for her support and would wholeheartedly recommend her to any family seeking a dedicated and compassionate nanny. Warmly, Grace Chan

阿姨在我们家做了46 天下户了，真的很舍不得。 她对宝宝特别上心，也非常有经验。平时总是陪宝宝说话、互动，天气好的时候会给宝宝晒太阳，还会认真给宝宝做排气操。有时候我们看宝宝哼唧，准备立马抱起来，她会提醒我们先等等，观察一下，等宝宝真的需要、哭了再抱，既安抚宝宝情绪，也帮助宝宝慢慢建立安全感。一旦宝宝哭，她马上就过去查看，有时候还小跑起来，从不拖延。只要把宝宝一睡下，她就出来做饭了。在她照顾的这段时间里，在家里基本没有听宝宝哭过，大多时候刚有一点声音，她就已经处理好了。阿姨动作轻柔、有耐心，跟宝宝互动，是真的发自内心喜欢孩子，不是应付工作的那种。宝宝在她的照顾下作息稳定，满月不久晚上两觉就能各睡五个小时，我们也省心了很多。 我产后刚开始没什么奶，她会主动帮忙通乳，手法专业，很有帮助。平时会提醒我多休息、喝水，正餐点心做好放我面前，照顾得很细心，但又不会让人有压力。我是混合喂养，母乳瓶喂，我觉得母乳少，她说有就吃，没有就吃奶粉，压力不要太大。挤出来的母乳一滴也没有浪费，让我感到很轻松。 阿姨学东西也特别快，用什么电器一教就会，不用人反复提醒。眼里有活，不计较，看到哪里需要收拾就顺手做了。做饭速度快，而且特别特别好吃，家常菜和面食都很合我们口味，我们两都长肉了。阿姨做完饭厨房收拾得干净利落，让人看着就舒服。 阿姨身体也好，生完后一周产妇、大宝、爸爸都病倒了，病了有一个月。阿姨和宝宝一点事都没有。我当时找月嫂的时候因为年龄还犹豫了一下，担心体力跟不上，但阿姨不但身体好，晚上宝宝快醒了一有动静她就起来开始冲奶粉了，根本不会等宝宝哭了再起来。晚上带宝宝，早上起来还精力充沛，又开始做饭干活，我们两个低能量的人真是自愧不如。阿姨性格也很好，每天都挺开心的，跟她相处很轻松，家里的氛围一直不错。下户前还担心我们之后没时间做饭，特意多做了不少面食给我们留着，把冰箱都塞满了。下户前行李都装好了还想着帮我把那张饼给烙了晚上吃… 这46天阿姨给宝宝的爱比我们做父母的还多。大宝也很喜欢吃阿姨做的饭菜，也特别舍不得阿姨走。这是我们第一次请月嫂，如果还有三胎还会请阿姨。最近看到一些月嫂伤害宝宝的新闻更感激、庆幸能遇到我们的好阿姨。还有好多想写的阿姨的好，要自己照顾宝宝了没有时间去一一回忆。看到我这条评论的宝妈们，我想说，选阿姨，准没错。 （阿姨做饭太好吃了没有照很多照片，基本就是一上桌就只顾着吃了。等想起来拍照后都吃完了）

太差劲了。一点爱心都没有。然后情绪非常敏感可怕。一点责任心也没有，就想偷懒不干活。对小朋友也没有爱心，照顾的一塌糊涂。跟她沟通她一点也不听，就喜欢狡辩。跟其他油月嫂抱团，一直被推。然后不停跟现任雇主提之前雇主的事情，一点保护别人隐私的意识都没有。